PERFECTION is unfathomable when it comes to humans. No one can reach the high level of perfection, especially with the standards of what "perfection" is to our society. Beauty, charm, these seem to be the ingredients of this concoction which is driven by media. Girls and women have been placed before them a scale in which has different levels of what makes a girl appealing or "perfect" - thin waist, a pretty face, and an attitude about them that is all that. On another spectrum in the views of society on women, there is a degrading view which perceives women to be weak and an object of possession. As hard as it is to say, there is so much pressure and stereotypical views towards women and girls that they fight to survive in a society that is trying to shape them to what it wants them to be.
Here's an example,
The company Unilever owns big names like Dove and Axe which sell hygienic products for women and men, but wait- Dove and Axe present different viewpoints on the genders which lead to the accusation of hypocrisy on their part. On Dove's side, advertisements are targeted towards women and girls in a positive way as they convey the message of the individuality of every girl. Yet Axe does the exact opposite as they use women as a sexualized object for men, degrading them and presenting them as desperate women who run to any guy who wears their products. With these two branches of Unilever presenting two very different views on women and girls, the definition of the word "girl" has become so mixed by media that it has become an obstacle for girls to let their individuality and uniqueness shine through, which makes them truly beautiful.
Here's the problem: SOCIETY HAS CREATED A MOLD FOR GIRLS AND WOMEN WHICH THEY CANNOT FULLY FILL. SO WHAT DEFINES A BEAUTIFUL GIRL?!
As a young generation within society, it's very critical of how we process the information that media gives or even shoves in our face, and how we respond to it. Teenagers are a huge demographic that media targets, but we have control over how we deal with the information we get from media, and how we present or shape ourselves because of it. A person's individuality is their greatest weapon against society, but if we let the poison seep into our brain, we will lose our walls of defense against a branded world and become a "Plastic" (Mean Girls connection). I think we have to think about the messages that media shows us, and really ask ourselves, "Is this how I want to be presented?"
Overall, media has its pros and cons, but as far as stereotypes go, it is not something I want to let myself sink into.